Why has my best girl friend suddenly started ignoring me?


Okay, I’ll probably sound whiney if I don’t give some background info, so here goes. Me(a guy) and this girl have been best friends since 8th grade, and we’re sophomores in high school now. We’ve talked nearly every single day for as long as I can remember, and it has never gotten romantic or…

Well for starters, I can certainly understand how going through trouble with your best friend can be extremely stressful and exhausting. You’re being the absolute gentlemen to her and she should be super grateful to have a friend like you. There’s only one thing I can think of that would be making her act this way. Maybe you’ve reminded her of old feelings from her past similar experience that took a toll on her and she’s maybe gotten upset that you’ve reminded her of a time at the point in her life that you knew was hard. I personally think she may be trying to play a victim role and turns thing back onto her and make you comfort her because some people have to be the center of attention and are unknowingly selfish. Being a girl, I know it’s harsh but she’s ignoring you because she knows your always going to be there and you’re going to ask her what’s wrong then she’s going to try to be the victim. I may certainly be wrong but I think that’s what’s happening here. I’m really sorry you’re being treated this way. Nothing pisses me off more than others taking kindness for granted. I don’t think you should try talking to her or holding up conversion unless she’s the one igniting it on Monday. Just say “hey” and if she’s only like “hey” back and says nothing else, smile, say “i’ll catch up with you later i’m going to my locker” or something and keep walking. It some times takes a person to leave to see what they’ve missed out on is what i’m learning.

Female Friend Ignoring Me

Afraid not. Females are crazy. She was mad at a guy for being flirty? What dies that mean? Sounds like a jerk. You’ve said what you have to say. Can’t say more without losing respect for yourself just forget her. Find a girl who likes you romantically.

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